Are They Ready to Change?

Are They Ready to Change?

You’ve prepared well. You know about the levels of communication and the art of asking powerful questions. You have patiently walked them through the coaching model and they have maybe even identified the next step. But will they actually do it? Time and again...

Conflict Resolution with Four Conversations

Sometimes when couples try to resolve conflict, they try to hit it all in one conversation. One spouse brings up an issue and the 2 people banter around the issue for awhile. Now while I choose the word “banter,” I think we all know I mean attack, defend, criticize,...

Three Components of Each of Us

Some of us think we are pretty simple, while others of us know we are a complicated mess. The truth is that we are all complicated, complex people. One of the ways to break this down is to look at 3 contributing factors that make you who you are. Personality This is...

Holding onto Your Dream

Ordinary Leaves the Land of Familiar I just read an awesome book that revived me for pursuing what I feel called toward. The Dream Giver, by Bruce Wilkinson, begins as a parable about Ordinary.  “Meet Ordinary, a Nobody who leaves the land of Familiar to pursue his...

Are Your Goals S.M.A.R.T.?

Goals in Your Relationship Having goals is important in life, and specifically your relationship. However, many couples I talk to do not realize just how important it is to have goals. The old adage if you don’t have a target you will miss every time applies. Goals...

A Couples' Assessment to Launch Your Relationship Work

What if taking the time to take one online assessment would change your marriage?  What if taking just a few hours to unpack the results would give you a boost to run confidently into the next chapter?   Good news- this is not a hypothetical idea.  This really does...
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